individual support

One-on-one guidance that meets you wherever you are - whether you're working through death anxiety and fears, clarifying what you want for your end-of-life, planning how you want to be remembered, or preparing to have tender conversations with loved ones.

supported dialogue

For two people navigating end-of-life conversations together. Whether your relationship is strained or strong, these topics can be tricky to navigate alone. I mediate whatever conversation needs to happen – helping you work through decisions, clarify wishes, or find a path forward that honors what’s real.

circle facilitation

For families and groups navigating end-of-life conversations, fractured by loss, or needing to make collective decisions. I hold space for everyone to be heard and help you navigate toward whatever is possible - whether that’s repair, working boundaries, or clarity about what the relationship will be going forward.

co-creating legacy

Hands-on creative sessions where families collaborate on a shared legacy project. An opportunity to slow down together, reflect on this moment, and explore how you’d like to spend this time.

what it’s like to work with me

My facilitation work is grounded in a few core beliefs: that we heal in community, not isolation, that the most transformative conversations happen when we slow down rather than rush toward solutions, and that our bodies hold wisdom we can learn to trust.

I practice what trauma therapist Resmaa Menakem calls "settled presence": continually working to settle my own nervous system so that ease and safety can spread across the room. This isn't about having all the answers or “fixing”. It's about creating conditions where people can speak what's usually left unsaid, where conflict can be held without collapsing into harm, and where new possibilities can emerge from the in-between.

Whether facilitating death dinners, mediating between two people, or holding space for whole families, my role is to remind everyone of their own agency and imagination. I'm not the expert on your life or your relationships - you are. I'm here to hold the container, reflect back what I’ve heard you say, and trust that when people feel truly heard, something shifts. This work isn't about quick fixes or forced harmony. It's about growing our capacity to sit with difficulty, to hold conflict while still seeing each other's humanity, and to discover paths forward we didn't know were possible.